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Symptoms that Indicate Kathi Hunt is an adult survivor of childhood sexual abuse.

These eight symptoms are listed by Jan Frank in her book A Door of Hope as 8 ot the fifteen she has observed in her clients that are survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse. After the list of 15 she states that any four are sufficient to diagnose a woman as an adult survivor of childhood sexual abuse. These eight were displayed by my ex-wife during the last 28 years of my thirty year marriage.

* a controlling personality
* excessive jealousy
* anger without reason
* mistrust
* sexually cutting off a spouse without telling them
* obesity
* expecting perfection in the spouse
* extremely negative response to certain scents

The author said she froze when her husband came to bed wearing the same men's scent as her father wore when he molested her.  In my case, my wife froze when I wore Old Spice which is an old enough product to have been her father's cologne.